For all these years,
I always heard people said to me:
"Wow! You went to so many fansign events, you are so lucky!"
"What? You took picture with idols before? You are damn lucky!"
"Wah, you had tea time with MINX and SONAMOO? You this lucky bastard!"
"Huh? You had meal with LABOUM and BERRY GOOD? You are super lucky!"
Many people said that I am lucky,
but actually.............
I don't think so...........
If I am really lucky,
then where is my rich dad?
Why is there no trees that can grow money in my house?
Where is my pretty wife?
Why am I not tall, not rich, not handsome?
Where is my healthy body?
ACTUALLY, I AM NOT THAT LUCKY.
I always feel like ridiculous when people said that I am lucky.........
It was like..........
All the hard works I went through for all these were not worthy to be mentioned,
instead I am just blessed with luck??
Not only me,
people also always said that my friends are lucky.
Frankly speaking,
I don't think that they are lucky at all.
One of them,
since he wanted to make sure that he can goes go Korea when his favorite group having comeback,
he gave up his stable accountant job,
he gave up his monthly income which was almost double than fresh graduates,
and only works for part-time job at some events to save money,
almost everyday eat instant noodles at Korea,
now he is so thin.
Will you still say that he is lucky for being able to meet idols at Korea?
Another friend of mine,
he was so determined to stay at Korea for KPOP,
after he spent all his money at Korea,
he had no place to sleep and forced to sleep at subway station,
he didn't have money to buy flight ticket to go back his own country,
at last he found a part-time job at a guesthouse only able to survive until now.
Will you still say that he is lucky?
As for me,
if you are wondering how come I seems like always have time and money to go Korea......
Well........
At first it had nothing to do with KPOP.
I graduated from local university at year 2011,
and I HATED the low salaries for fresh graduates,
so I decided to be S(self-employed) to earn more money to invest.
Until year 2013,
only I realized that being a S not only allowed me for flexible working days,
but also higher income than people same age as me,
and all this,
made me easier to go Korea to see idols.
So I am not lucky,
I am just...................
REFUSED TO SETTLE DOWN MYSELF WITH LOW INCOME!!
Same for Korean language,
everyone kept saying that I am lucky for knowing how to speak Korean language,
but never tried to understand how much efforts I put into it.
Every time I saw people commenting at Vlive:
English please, please speak English.
I always feel like want to shout at them:
"If you have the fxxxxxx time to leave all these useless comments,
why don't you spend the time to learn Korean language!!! "
Ooops,
sorry for saying rude words..............-_-)
Lastly,
one suggestion for everyone,
STOP saying "you are lucky".
Not only stop saying it for KPOP,
when you saw someone owns a luxury house,
or imported car,
or something that you hope to own,
just stop saying "you are lucky".
Of course,
you will feel more relieved after saying "you are lucky",
because you were blaming everything on fate,
and avoided from blaming yourself for not putting enough effort into chasing your own dream.
I understoood,
since human have the tendency to choose an easier path.
HOWEVER,
everytime when you say "you are lucky",
at the same time you are blocking your own possibilities,
your chance to grow.
Instead of saying "you are lucky",
I suggest you to say "HOW CAN I BE LIKE THAT TOO?"
Then,
the possibilities of yourselves will be broaden,
the door of a whole new world will be opened for you.
This advice,
is for everyone who read my articles.
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